Etiquette
Screening
Screening is very necessary. I need to know who I am meeting with in order to assist me in making an educated decision on whether or not to grant access into my space. After all, my safety is paramount. Every request does not get the honor of being granted. This is why, when reaching out, the first impression should be your best! On the flip side, if you do not wish to screen please do not waste your time nor mine with an attempt to circumvent this process.
Deposits
I do not have a stationary location from which I entertain suitors’ company. Therefore, in preparation for a meeting one must be procured. This costs money. If a meeting is cancelled I will have spent money needlessly. Requiring deposits ensures that any suitor is sure of their schedule and decision to meet with me.
Discretion
Ahhhh. The infamous D-word. It entails many things. From the manner in which we communicate to presenting “the envelope” to me in person, discretion is key. So here are some extra points I would like to make that fall into this category:
I do not show my face on my website or anywhere online. Therefore, I also do not share any in private. Please do not ask.
In private: Please leave your donation on the restroom counter upon my arrival.
In public: Please place the donation in a gift bag, card or any other creative, discreet way.
I should never have to ask for it!
Please communicate with me in a manner that you mother would approve of. Any and all vulgar correspondence, use of acronyms and/or abusive language will be ignored and will result in our conversation being immediately terminated.
I whole-heartedly understand that men are visual beings. However, I do not accommodate certain attire requests if we are meeting in a public setting. Make no mistake about it, I will always be dressed to the 10’s but there is a line I will not cross for the sake of me remaining comfortable unless our surroundings are conducive to such a request i.e.- I would not dress the same for a night club in Miami or Las Vegas as I would dinner at a 5-star venue in wine country.
Please do your part in keeping our correspondence private so as to avoid any personal conflicts.
Boundaries
No means no! Simple and plain, right? Right. I will not engage in any activities that may lead to the detriment of my health and safety. If at any point I feel disrespected because my stated boundaries are crossed or even slightly pressed upon after making them known, our meeting will be terminated.
Requesting My Time
I am not a full-time companion. I have personal duties and responsibilities from day to day just the same as you. On occasion, one may request a meeting and be informed that I am *unavailable or fully booked. This does not equate to me having a schedule full of suitors. Fully booked and/or unavailable could simply mean I am out of town visiting family, on vacation, I have picked up extra time in my civilian occupation, or am simply taking personal time off from engaging with any suitor.
*NOTE: Established suitors may be the exception to any broad unavailability notice. If you know, you know:)
Reviews
Since Fall ‘21 I have not allowed explicitly detailed reviews of my encounters with suitors. This goes hand-in-hand with discretion. Every meeting is a specialized experience and yours may not look like another gentleman’s. It may be better;) Therefore, aside from commenting on my countenance (physical appearance) being what is portrayed here, personality, conversation, and that you had a wonderful time, please refrain from writing such things. If you are concerned about my validity, please know that if I were a scammer or catfish that would indeed be circulating about for you to find…but I am neither.